4 weeks away from Baby Eden’s due date and I’m officially on maternity leave! My goal this week is to stay active and maximize my time by running errands and finishing up little projects around the house. The ENFP in me has to pat myself on the back for everything I’ve done so far, so here’s my list of this week’s accomplishments:
- packed labor bag
- went on a Target run (which there will be plenty more of)
- ordered photos and frames for the our currently sad, bare dining room wall
- went to a nursing bra fitting (who knew that was a thing?) and bought some bras
- organized baby shower gifts and hand-me-downs
- went to a 36th week doctor’s appointment
- took photos for this week’s bumpdate!
Still to do…
- organize and clean the nursery (we’ve seriously accumulated so much stuff!)
- finish decorating the nursery and living room
- wash baby clothes, blankets and other accessories
- make a dentist appointment for a regular cleaning
- pack hospital bag
- type up birth plan
- buy a few more things in time for baby’s arrival
Lots of to-do’s, but I’m taking it a step at a time. Just very thankful to have the time off work to do all these things with time remaining to relax.

Cozy Update: The season of Lent started two weeks ago and we have BANNED THE USE OF SCREENS (aka phone, laptops, and tv) after 7pm. Before Lent, our approach to relaxation was watching Netflix or YouTube for a few hours, and then spending time on our laptops doing miscellaneous things. Now, we basically do a combination of eat, talk, nap, clean, shower/bath, meditate, or read before going to sleep. It’s been a nice change of pace. Our conversations and time together have upped in quality and we’re definitely clocking in more sleep. (We sleep before midnight nowadays– big shocker for us night owls!)
As Conoon and I near the end of this pregnancy, I can’t help but feel like it’s the end of an era… the “Just Us” era of Cozy. Even though we dated for 8 years before getting married, it never really felt like it was “just us” until we made that life-long commitment. So while it’s bittersweet to say goodbye to our lives as we know it, looking ahead, I see that a grander adventure awaits. An adventure that will test and break us in difficult moments, but make our bond and trust in each other stronger with time. I’m not afraid because I know we have each other, God, and the overwhelming support of family and friends (to whom I say a heartfelt Thank you! and I love you!).
And now for some less lengthy updates…
Baby Fruit/Veggie: Baby is the size of a papaya this week, weighing in at 5.73 lbs and measuring 18.7 inches.
Baby Milestone: First time getting upset with mommy. I was sitting slumped on the couch one night, and my back started hurting so I sat up with my back straight, making my stomach close in around her more tightly. Baby totally KICKED me moments after– I have 4 witnesses. Not a very nice way of telling me she’s squished, hmph! But besides that incident, I still LOVE feeling the big swooshes and gentle nudges of her movement.
Mom Update: My uterus measures 35cm. Belly button is looking weirder by the day. Braxton Hicks contractions are frequent. Swelling of the cankles and feet are very real and the urge to pee every hour is going strong. Feeling excited, anxious, in love, and like I’m running out of time!
And that’s week 36!


















